Be messy. Be hot. Be loud. Just don't be cold.
For centuries, "lust" has been relegated to the basement of the seven deadly sins. We are taught that wanting too much—too much pleasure, too much skin, too much intensity—is a character flaw. We are told to cool our jets, to dim the lights, to settle for "fine." lusty souls
But what if we have been misreading the symptoms? Be messy
True lustiness requires vulnerability. It requires the terrifying act of saying, "I want you," without knowing if the feeling is returned. It requires the courage to be rejected while your blood is still hot. Most people would rather scroll in the lukewarm shallows than risk the burning deep. too much skin